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The dreadful dark side of India

                                    
      Horrible facts:
      The dramatic failure of society in India: one in every two children is a victim of child sexual abuse.  More than half of these children-54% percent-to be precise- are boys. More strangely, 94% of rape cases saw children being raped by someone they knew, direct family members or relatives.
     
Here , to point out , another significant thing is that nearly all cases related child abuse are kept in silence! In dreadful silence! Some of them are impossible to imagine, do not make any sense-father, siblings or another  family members in a sober manner are making physical relationship by deceiving their daughters or sisters, as they don’t understand anything in this. Fearful! Where the society is going? How parents, government are allowing to this? Where they are looking for?
      Important to realize  that India is huge country according to its territory, population, various nationality, citizens, mixture of intercultural aspects, religions and traditions. Additionally, its population has been increasing unbelievably; during 2000-2017 the growth is showing 33.4%- the highest indications in the world. It is supposed by experts that, India is expected to be on the first place in the world with the highest population- around 1.600.000.000 in 2050, it will pass China’s population as well. Indeed, it’s good, the country is growing. However, with this in mind, the contradictory sides are there as well. According to the Child line India Foundation, India has the world’s largest proportion of child sexual assault cases.
       In 2007, the largest study  conducted by Ministry of Women and Child Development (GOI) in collaboration with  UNICEF was nationwide  discovery on wide spread incidence of child abuse. Covered in 13 states,  with the sample size of 12000  children. The findings revealed that across  different kinds of abuse, it is young children in the 5-12 
years group are most at risk of abuse and exploitation. This involves physical, sexual as well as emotional abuse. Together with this report , there are physical abuse, emotional, child labour and hard assault to children. The interesting point is that, out of 69% of physically abused children, 54% were boys. In the country where men’s equaled with God, and boy’s  birth is a day of a big celebration, they also seems face with violence.
     It is not only survey conducted on this case, a 2013 survey by UNICEF confirms this by stating that almost 42% of Indian girls experience sexual violence before they are teenagers. And especially according to annual Indian’s Crime Record Bureau, 100.000 crimes against children were reported in 2015. Surprisingly, the number of the cases registered for child abuse raised from 8,904 in the year 014 to 14,913 in the year 2015, only under the POSCO Act. Sexual offences and kidnapping account for 81% of the crimes against minors. Year after year the percentage of the violence is increasing. Also these are  the reports which are known to us. Magnitude number of rapes are unknown, as 98% of rapes are commited by people known to the children , like grandfathers, brothers, fathers uncles and even sons. Unknown because of parents keep silence for their family reputation, future of their daughter, or other related issues. But what kind of reputation they are saying if father himself assaulting and spoiling the life of his child?
    Home is a place where the child is the safest but nowadays the scenario has changed. No any girl and boy are safe if there is an elder patriarchal family member. Yeah, boys are equally at risk of being abused. Family environment, schools, working places became dangerous to children. Unbelievable! Can’t stop asking the question: whats  happened to people ? How they dare to do this? Kill the life by their hand which themselves give birth. How anyone can do any kind of abuse to a child? Pure, small existence- humankind who doesn’t understand anything in life, never able to hurt. Where are social norms here? All these are the consequences of suppositions ( young children cannot be abused sexually, boys cannot be abused) , uneducation, poverty, lack of uncultured, uncivilisized manners, mental thickness….
   There should be a larger movement to ensure the safety of children in the country. India shelters 430 million children, nearly half of the population and they all are in need of protection. Knowing that it’s nation is going down , how the government can be side viewer? Definitely, we should highlight here the preventable actions of government, such as child related laws- The Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act (2012),  Child Labor (Prohibition and Regulation)Act, (2000) ,  Prohibition of Child Marriage Act, (2006), Juvenile Justice Rules and etc. Moreover, child protection plans at schools, railway stations , streets ,open discussions including the engagement of media and civil society and so on. World organization –UNICEF, coupled with hundred of NGO’s are working in various states   for the rights of children and well-being. But, facts remain fact that, all these preventable actions of Indian policy is not enough, as if it is not affecting or reaching to it’s people, as the indications of violence and child abuse increased instead of decreasing and India remains the most unsafe place for girls and children, centre of sexual violence in the world.
   Children are our future. Abusing a child is equal as killing a person because a child is soft by nature  and any abuse that he or she goes through in early stages of life, leaves a lasting imprint on its mind for always.
  
    

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